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Mother's Day and Grief: However This Day Lands for You
Mother's Day. A day of "shoulds" for many. You "should" be happy. You "should" be celebrating. Your Mum "should" still be here. You "should" be able to call yourself a Mum by now. You "should" have your child with you today. Your relationship with your Mum "should" feel simple and warm and card-aisle easy. I'm sorry if today holds some of those "shoulds" for you. I also want to say, before Sunday arrives, that I understand this as a human, not only as a grief professional. T
Ali Mills
May 64 min read


Kids Grieve Differently; Supporting our Littlest Grievers
Kids grieve differently. Their age shapes how they make sense of loss, but make no mistake, children grieve from a very young age, even when they don't have the words for it. I watch this unfold in my work all the time. A three-year-old who keeps asking where Grandpa is. A seven-year-old who suddenly won't go to school. A ten-year-old who's angry at everyone and doesn't know why. The urge to protect What I often see is adults trying to shield kids from grief. It makes sense.
Ali Mills
Feb 124 min read


The Healing Power of Children's Stories in Grief Counselling
A small selection of my therapeutic Grief books 🪷 I love kids books 🪷 There's something quietly profound about opening a children's book when the world feels too heavy. Children's stories have this magical way of articulating the most complicated and overwhelming of human experiences and making them feel less isolating. Why Children's Stories Work for Everyone Children's books have a unique ability to distil complex emotions into their essence. They don't overwhelm us with
Ali Mills
Oct 21, 20252 min read


Grief and Motherhood
Mother's Group Recently, as a guest presenter at a mother's group, we created space for something truly tender. I had the privilege of...
Ali Mills
Aug 27, 20255 min read


Grief is a Whole Body Experience
Grief is a whole-body experience that will impact us all in different ways. No two people will grieve the same way, and each person will...
Ali Mills
Jun 11, 20254 min read


Is my grief bad enough to get support?
Have you ever wondered this? Is my grief, my problem, or my circumstance big enough or bad enough to seek help? I wonder, what would...
Ali Mills
Dec 4, 20242 min read


Grief around the Holidays
The end of the year is a period filled with a mix of emotions for families around the world. While it can be an exciting time with the...
Ali Mills
Oct 31, 20243 min read


What is Grief?
What is Grief in a culture that doesn't do grief well? Let's do things differently with Grief Guide
Ali Mills
Sep 10, 20243 min read
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