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The Grief We Don't Talk About in Motherhood
I recently sat down with Not Another Onesie to have a conversation about something that's often invisible: the grief woven through motherhood. 🪷 Not the grief of death, but the grief of who you were before children. 🪷The birth story that didn't unfold as imagined. 🪷The version of motherhood you pictured. 🪷The relationships that shifted. 🪷The freedom, the time, the finality of watching your only child grow, or the impossible pull of being divided between multiple children
Ali Mills
Dec 10, 20252 min read
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The Healing Power of Children's Stories in Grief Counselling
A small selection of my therapeutic Grief books 🪷 I love kids books 🪷 There's something quietly profound about opening a children's book when the world feels too heavy. Children's stories have this magical way of articulating the most complicated and overwhelming of human experiences and making them feel less isolating. Why Children's Stories Work for Everyone Children's books have a unique ability to distil complex emotions into their essence. They don't overwhelm us with
Ali Mills
Oct 21, 20252 min read
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The Brain's Four Core Needs and the Impact of Grief
Hi there, and thanks for being here. I want to share something with you that might just change the way you see grief. When we experience...
Ali Mills
Sep 23, 20253 min read
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Grief and Motherhood
Mother's Group Recently, as a guest presenter at a mother's group, we created space for something truly tender. I had the privilege of...
Ali Mills
Aug 27, 20255 min read
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Continuing Bonds
Article exploring the evidence-based concept of Continuing Bonds with reference to personal grief experience
Ali Mills
Jul 21, 20253 min read
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Values
A discussion of personal values and how these inform my practise, along with an invitation to the reader to explore their own.
Ali Mills
Jul 10, 20253 min read
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Grief is a Whole Body Experience
Grief is a whole-body experience that will impact us all in different ways. No two people will grieve the same way, and each person will...
Ali Mills
Jun 11, 20254 min read
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Euphemisms and Grief
You've heard them, right? 🪷 My Dad passed away. 🪷 We lost Grandma. 🪷 Your brother is gone now. 🪷 We put the cat to sleep. 🪷 They're...
Ali Mills
May 14, 20255 min read
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Self Care as a Grief Counsellor
A discussion on the importance of caring for oneself, in particular for those who care for others.
Ali Mills
Apr 9, 20253 min read
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The world that WAS versus The World that IS
Loss happens and changes everything. It cordons off the world that WAS prior, a distinct and defined space filled with memories,...
Ali Mills
Mar 12, 20254 min read
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Easing the pain of Grief: How does Resilience factor into Grief. A Podcast
A discussion about how resilience factors into the grief experience. Ideas on current theory, how it presents, and ways to support oneself.
Ali Mills
Feb 13, 20251 min read
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The complexity of Grief
Grief is rarely just one thing. Often grief comes with a multitude of emotions, many that can feel too difficult to bear. This complex...
Ali Mills
Jan 14, 20252 min read
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Is my grief bad enough to get support?
Have you ever wondered this? Is my grief, my problem, or my circumstance big enough or bad enough to seek help? I wonder, what would...
Ali Mills
Dec 4, 20242 min read
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Grief Shatters your Assumptive World
Our assumptive world is like a mental framework that we unconsciously develop throughout our lives. It consists of beliefs, values, and...
Ali Mills
Nov 14, 20242 min read
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Grief around the Holidays
The end of the year is a period filled with a mix of emotions for families around the world. While it can be an exciting time with the...
Ali Mills
Oct 31, 20243 min read
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Navigating Grief: Sharing My Insights as a Guest on a Podcast Episode
Grief and loss - we all experience it, but sometimes you might not recognise that’s what’s going on. Grief and loss show up in life over...
Ali Mills
Oct 10, 20241 min read
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Ambiguous Loss, what is it?
An exploration of ambiguous losses, the impact of these and how Grief Guide supports clients experiencing ambiguous losses
Ali Mills
Sep 19, 20242 min read
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What is Grief?
What is Grief in a culture that doesn't do grief well? Let's do things differently with Grief Guide
Ali Mills
Sep 10, 20243 min read
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Grief around Father's Day
Father's Day. A day of "shoulds" for many. You "should" be happy. You "should" be celebrating. Your relationship " should" look or feel a...
Ali Mills
Sep 4, 20242 min read
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What do you think when I say "Death Café?" A place to discuss death and dying.
Death Cafe It's a strange term, isn't it? What do you think happens at a Death Café? Have you been to one? Would you go to one? I am...
Ali Mills
Sep 3, 20242 min read
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